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August 02, 2007
Thankful Thursday
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Thankful Thursday

I’m not sure if I have be thankful, but I guess there is always something to be thankful about, in every situation.

My Father-in-law (FIL) passed away yesterday; we all knew he was in pain from his ailment and sooner or later his body will succumb, but somehow … when it happens you’re never ever prepared for it. Never. Well, at least we weren’t. :cry:

However, this post is supposed to be a post where I should be thankful, and indeed, I am thankful for a lot of things. I am thankful … :smile:

  • … that my MIL and FIL raised their children to be God-fearing and be sensitive to other people’s feelings.
  • … that I had the chance to know my FIL for quite some time.
  • … that my son also had the chance to know Grandpa (my FIL), and vice versa.
  • … that even though we didn’t really see things eye to eye, I know that my FIL loves us -his children/family- dearly and did his best to make us all happy and contented with what we have.
  • … that my FIL was with his loved ones when he passed away.
  • … that my FIL was happy serving the Lord for years before he got sick, and so maybe the idea that he might be leaving us might not be so frightening to him. though we were completely unprepared.
  • … that my parents got to meet my in-laws, and that they have always been in good terms with each other.
  • … that my MIL is sorrounded by family and friends … i really can’t imagine myself being in her position right now. :sad:
  • … that my FIL lived a full life; one that he knows to be good and just.
  • … that i have this chance to say how much i really appreciated my FIL … though i never did get to tell him all that. :sad:
  • … mostly, that at least now we know that he isn’t hurting physically anymore … he will always be with us. forever.

Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.
(Psalm 23:4)

For more Thankful Thursday posts, head on over to Iris’ Sting My Heart.

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14 Comments posted on "Thankful Thursday"
Spanish Guy on August 2nd, 2007 at 12:13 pm #

I’m sorry for your loss. These times are hard, but you are doing a great job staying thankful for what you have in these times.

thank you, Spanish Guy


Linky Love on August 2nd, 2007 at 1:31 pm #

My Condolences.

I asked my visitors to drop by as well.

It’s true, your MIL is the one in most need now!

appreciate so much the kind gesture, LL!
many many thanks!


Millie on August 2nd, 2007 at 5:39 pm #

I am so sorry to hear that your FIL passed away yesterday. But we know that now he stays with the heavenly father at the heaven.

Family members are the treasure given by the Lord, so let cherish them and love them and care for them.

Yes, we are also glad that at least now he isn’t hurting anymore. :)
thank you so much for the sweet and kind comments!


Denise on August 2nd, 2007 at 5:50 pm #

Bless your precious heart for being thankful in times of sadness. I am very sorry for the loss of your FIL. Your family is in my prayers.

thank you, too, Denise! appreciate the gesture.


Adam_Y on August 2nd, 2007 at 6:07 pm #

I’m sorry for your loss, he sounds like a good guy. I suspect that he too would have been thankful that he got to know you as a daughter-in-law.

that’s so sweet, Adam. thank you!
as i am thankful that he was my FIL :)


Sharon on August 2nd, 2007 at 8:57 pm #

I am sorry about your FIL. I pray that the next few days as arrangements are being made that the presence of the Lord will
hold you tight.
I am glad that you know he is waiting for ya’ll in heaven.

I am thankful that my in-laws are Christians and right now as the whole family is being gathered together we can all feel the love (and sadness) that holds us together.
thank you …


Ellie on August 2nd, 2007 at 9:11 pm #

My prayers are with you and your family through this time. Your family is blessed to have such wonderful memories of your FIL. May time begin to heal the pain of your loss.

thank you, Ellie. I can only agree that it is only time that will heal pain such as this.


eph2810 on August 3rd, 2007 at 9:29 am #

I am so sorry for the loss in your family…I think it is a beautiful tribute to you FIL….It is wonderful that he was such a wonderful spiritual leader of his family…

Thank you so much for sharing your grateful heart with us this week, despite your loss…

Blessings to you and yours.


Karen (Changed by Love) on August 3rd, 2007 at 8:38 pm #

I am sorry to hear about your father in law and willl be praying for your family during this time. Thanks for sharing through a grateful heart this week!


Hopeful Spirit on August 5th, 2007 at 11:13 am #

My condolences on the loss of your father-in-law. I am very impressed with your list, however, and agree that you have much to be thankful for in this situation. How wonderful that the Divine has made it possible for you to give thanks!


maiylah on August 5th, 2007 at 1:30 pm #

thank you all, for dropping by, and the kind words…


Betty Jane on August 7th, 2007 at 9:26 am #

Wow, that is some heavy life happenings but you were still able to give thanks - which is beautiful. I too experienced a similar situation with my grandmother. We knew it was coming but you are seriously never prepared for it when they leave you. Blessings to you and your family as you mourn.

Hope to hear from you more!


Thankful Thursday on August 23rd, 2007 at 12:55 pm #

[...] … thankful Thursday! These past few days has been kind of hectic for me and my family; the passing of my FIL (I honestly still can’t imagine him being gone …), the “settling down” [...]


Thankful Thursday on September 6th, 2007 at 8:24 am #

[...] The whole family (my in-laws) will be together again this weekend (but it is a sort of sad occasion; it’s going to be the 40th day since my FIL passed away). [...]


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